4everbe

Be remembered in your own voice.

Your voice, your photographs, your letters — gathered while you’re here, kept forever. So the people you love can always find their way back to you.

For your own story, or for someone you’ve lost.

Looking for someone? Find a memorial by name.

What a memorial holds.

Six rooms, one for each kind of memory. Everything below is real and working today in Ralph’s memorial, our example.

You answer one question at a time, on camera. Each one takes two or three minutes.

Ralph’s videos

You are looking at Ralph’s memorial, one room at a time.

What you learned the hard way shouldn’t leave with you.

Most of what a person knows goes with them — the story of the worst year, the advice for a wedding they won’t attend, the recipe nobody wrote down. 4everbe keeps it: your films on tape, your voice on cassette, your letters with their stamps.

And when you’re gone, it becomes the place your people return to. Your grandchildren will meet you there. Even then, your life keeps giving.

How it works

It takes four steps.

Gather what you have

The photographs from the shoebox, the voicemail nobody deleted, the wedding video. Upload what exists.

Record your memories

Tell your phone a story about them, a few minutes at a time. Each one is kept as a short film.

Invite everyone to add a memory

Print a card with the memorial’s code for the service. Anyone can scan it and leave a film, a voice or a letter. Your family approves each one.

Share it with the people who matter

Its own private address, on any phone. Share it with a few people or with everyone.

The promises

What we promise.

Your family approves every word

Nothing shows until your family says so. Anything reported comes down at once.

You can always download it

You can download every video, photo and letter in one file, any time. If we ever closed, you’d get six months’ notice and the whole memorial.

Private until you say so

Build in private. Publish when you’re ready, or leave it to open after you’re gone.

Our story

“We built it so your family will always have what ours never had — a place to go back to.

— Jesse & Joey Misa, brothers, two of eight

Read our story
The fee

One memorial, paid once.

$99$49
Launch price · once

The full price is $99. Pay $49 while we launch.

  • It holds about two hours of video, and all the photos and letters.
  • 2 GB of space. Another 2 GB is $29, once.
  • We keep it for as long as we operate. The family approves everything first.
Pay $49

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We send one reminder and no newsletters.

Questions

Questions people ask us.

Is it really $49?

Yes. $49 once, plus tax where it applies. There is no subscription and no ads. We keep short videos of two or three minutes and hundreds of photos, not hours of video. That is how one payment can last.

What happens to my memorial when I die?

It stays online, and it opens, with nobody at 4everbe in the way. A family member with a login reports your death from the family desk. The memorial waits 24 hours. During that day you and every family member get a letter with a stop button. A second family member can confirm, and it opens at once. Then your successor becomes the owner and the greetings you sealed go out on their dates.

See how a memorial opens, step by step
Can my greetings still go out on birthdays and weddings?

Yes. Record a greeting now for a birthday, an anniversary, or a wedding with no date yet. We seal it and open it only to deliver it. Once your memorial opens, it goes out on the day, every year if you like. The family fills in a wedding date when it is known.

Can I make one for someone who has already passed?

Yes. Choose “Someone I love” when you begin. The whole family can add to it, each with their own login.

How do you stop someone from pretending to be a person they are not?

We do not check ID. The fee stops casual fakes. Recordings and photos only come in through links your family creates. Your family approves every word. Every public memorial has a report link, and anything reported comes down at once. A reported death waits a day, with a stop button in every family member’s inbox.

Who can see it?

It starts private. Only you and the people you invite can see it, and search engines cannot list it. Publish it and share the address when you are ready. To let anyone find it, turn on “Let it be found” at your family desk. Then search engines can list it, and our own search finds it by name. Turn it off again any time.

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Who approves the memories people leave?

Your family. Letters can arrive any time. Recordings and photos need a link your family creates, and the family can close a link any time. The family sees each memory whole, then approves it or deletes it.

Can my family help me build it?

Yes. Invite them from your family desk. An admin can do everything. A helper can add recordings and approve memories.

Can people add their memories at the funeral or the wake?

Yes. Print the QR code from your family desk and stand it beside the guest book. Anyone can point a camera at it and leave a video, a voice or a letter. It works before the memorial is published.

What if we change our minds?

Within thirty days we refund the fee, no questions. Any time after, the owner can download the whole memorial in one file, or delete it.

What if I’m not ready to talk about this?

Almost nobody is. Start with one photo and a caption, or one easy question. Nothing shows until you say so.

One day, someone you love will need to hear your voice. Make sure they can.